tim chester has a post today talking about his upcoming book, captured by a better vision. in this post time lists a couple statistics that really struck me:
- The average age of first exposure to pornography is 11 years old and 80% of 15-17 year olds have had multiple hard-cor e exposure
- The 35-49 age group is the largest consumer of internet pornography
i have to believe that these two stats are related. the below demographic should be fathers to the above demographic and are introducing their sons (and daughters) to pornography passively by either having it on their computers, or not talking to them about the dangers of porn, mainly because they are in the grips of it themselves.
i fall into the 35-49 age group and have a history of struggling with pornography. i also have two young boys, and while i hope that they never see porn, knowing how it permeates our society, know that the likelihood of that is slim. my prayer is that they do not become addicted to it as i did. i have three ways i am trying to accomplish this for them:
- maintaining my personal freedom in Christ from porn
- share my struggles with them about it and talk openly about its destructive powers
- pray like their lives depend on it (because to a certain extent, they do).
what are you doing to keep yourself and your kids porn-free?
a couple links that are well worth the read regarding this: